It is amazing how much progress we can make if we really
begin to focus on ourselves and create written goals that we are committed to
reaching. There are certainly events and circumstances in our lives that we
just cannot control. But if we take control of those things that we can control,
we will be in a better position to manage our way through those things that we cannot control.
Three years ago when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer,
it was a very intimidating moment. However, because I had changed my lifestyle
at the beginning of that same year – walking at least four miles every morning,
drinking plenty of water, eliminating the consumption of sweets – I was able to
anticipate and experience a speedy and complete recovery after my surgery.
Often the problems that we could not avoid are made worse by our having failed
to prevent the problems that we could avoid. This discovery has been liberating
for me.
With the remaining days of this month, I will share more of
the principles and practices that I heave learned about creating and reaching
personal goals. I have been sharing this process with you even as I am updating
my own personal goals. And I gave myself a deadline of July 31st to
have completed my own revised plans for the next few years of my life. And as
you know I have been blessed to have a tremendously productive month.
One way to have a vision for whatever length of time you are
planning is to answer this question: “When I look in the mirror on this date
_______________ , who will I see?” That is really the question our goals seek
to answer. “By August 1, who will I see – or who will others see – when we look
at me?” The more we ask and answer this question, the more likely it is that we
are making the most out of our lives.
For some people this whole discussion is uncomfortable
because it feels like we are placing too much emphasis on our individual needs
and wants. Many people are uneasy hearing and thinking about themselves as much
as I suggest. But the reality is that we are not in a position to help others
if we have not addressed our own needs and potential. On every airline flight
that I have taken I have been instructed that in the case of an emergency to
place the oxygen mask on myself before I attempt to help anyone else. The sense
behind that advice is this: If you are not all right, you will not be able to
help other passengers make it to safety.
I am simply trying to show you how to place the oxygen mask
on yourself to better position you to be able to help others.
It is now July 20. Who will you see in the mirror 12 days
from now?
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