Before I say any more about goals, I want to pause to say a
word about passion. Someone asked me the other day how they could find their
passion. I had to think about this for a while because I felt as though I have
known my passion all of my life. The reason I want to describe passion is
because I believe that the goals that we have the best chance of achieving are
the ones that grow out of our passion.
This word “passion” is used so often that I was tempted not
to use it at all. But it is such a powerful concept that properly understood it
could direct you for the rest of your life.
My passion is helping people. That is also my mission. If I
look back over my life, I can describe every season of my life as having been
full of events and activities that all relate to an effort to help other
people. There were times when I was more effective helping people than at other
times. And there were times when I enjoyed helping other people than at other
times. There were even times when I tried not to want to help other people! But
I grew to learn that this is who I am.
And the various projects I have led – the different jobs I
have held – have all been pursuant to my desire to help other people. The big
question for me was how to balance my passion for helping people with my need
to take care of my responsibilities and myself. This can be a tremendous
challenge for most people. Too often the things that we love to do and the
things that we get paid to do seem to be worlds apart. If that reality lasts
long enough, we tend to ignore the things we love to do and we become enslaved
to the things we do to survive. At that point, we don’t even want to be
reminded about our passion.
But finding and knowing our passion is critical to our
mental health and our quality of life. A person who never finds her passion is
someone whose life is dedicated to the fulfillment of someone else’s dreams!
Passion is the fuel for the engine of a fulfilled life!
Here is your passion – whatever you would do every day if
you did not need any money; what you enjoy doing so much that you would do it enthusiastically
if someone awakened you at 3am without warning; something you are willing to
practice doing although there is no reward to be achieved from doing it;
something that makes you feel connected to the purpose for which you were born.
What is your passion? We do best what we love the most. God
has created each of us with something on the inside causes us to feel
unfulfilled until we get it out. For me it was helping people through speaking
and creating solutions to problems. For my brother it is playing music. What is
it for you?
Action items:
1.
What would you do if you needed no money at all?
2.
Whose life best resembles the life you would
like to live
3. If doing one thing every day of your life would
make you happy, what would that be?
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