I recently met a woman who gave me two different business
cards and both cards were hers. Before I could ask the question, the person’s
friend offered this explanation: “One card is for the job she has
to do and the other and the other card is for the job she loves to
do.” I understood exactly what the friend was saying. There was a time when I
was in the exact same situation. I had a job that I had to keep because I had
to pay my bills. But I hated the job. The only good thing about that job was
that I received a paycheck every two weeks. But every day that I went to work I
knew what my dream job was. I did not go out and print business cards. But I
did make up my mind to pursue my real career and to get paid for doing what I
love to do.
That is what it takes in setting career goals. It involves
describing our life’s real work and not simply settling for a job just to pay
the bills. The first question to ask ourselves about what kind of work we
should be doing is this: If we did not need any money, what kind of work would
we do? Or try this: What do you love doing so much that you would do it without
any compensation? Most of us would initially say that we would do anything for
the right amount of money. But that may not be true. I just told a professional
athlete that they did not seem to be happy playing their sport. Many well-paid
people are miserable and many low wage earners love what they do.
I have a friend who loves cleaning cars. He takes pride in
it – he longs to do it – and he will come to your house if there is a car there
for him to clean. As a result of his love for this work, he cleans cars better
than anyone I have ever met in my life. That is because we do best what we love to do
most. So that is another question we must answer before settling into a
vocation or profession: What do we love to do more than anything else in the
world? There is no guarantee that we will get a job doing what we love right
away. But we are more likely to find or create a job that we love after we
identify what that is and then spend some time doing it somewhere – even if it
begins in a volunteer role.
We must also ask ourselves what we do so well that someone
would be willing to pay us to do it. My sister in law organizes offices and
paperwork so well that people are willing to pay her to do it. My friend who
cleans cars can earn hundreds of dollars every day cleaning cars. Our economy
is based on supply and demand. If you know what you can supply, finding out
where it is needed is the key to your employment.
So - when developing our careers - our vocational, professional
or employment goals - we build on our passions, stay in touch with our dreams
and do what we must until we can do what we love. These action items will help
you shape your career goals.
Action items:
1.
List one task that you love doing so much that
you would do it without being paid.
2.
What is your dream job?
3.
What is the most important step that you must
take to get closer to your dream job?
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